yesterday (saturday) was the first time we argued in 'public'
it was about his driving skills
his negligence (in my opinion)
let me explain one by one. 'public' means, in the living room, where 2 housemates can hear us eventhough they were in their rooms but with their doors opened, and 3 house-keepers. *ha!*
wasn't that cool?
as for his negligence, he is always VERY CARELESS when he is driving. he said i complained too much when he is behind the wheel. but if he were to drive carefully, then would i at the first place nag? so he became stressed when i nag, then what about me? i would be stressed as well when he doesnt drive properly!
do u know that to that extent, that he is lazy to use the clutch when he is driving a manual? goodness me! dont drive then if ure LAZY! the car would jerk if u dont use it. he is even LAZY when it comes to changing gears.
what else? he can miss a turning, make that numerous turnings (max 2 so far) in A ride home. a 15 minutes ride home, he can miss 2 turnings all together.
????
what's the explanation?
a man handling multi-million business wouldnt even be that careless, would he?
tell me about brain-occupied hence the forgetfulness.
huge DUH!
we've been arguing about his driving wayyyyyy back in IMU.
he couldnt concentrate and would miss turnings even in KL. (hence not a recent disease)
u'd think he would shut the hell up when i yell?
NO! he would sometimes retort with ULTRA LAME excuses! i cant exactly remember them. perhaps things like he doesn't know the way. this would inflame me seriously! like HELLO? it is like telling me you dont know the way home. then i would burst and snapped WHY DIDNT U ASK ME THEN!??!?!?!
it would also enrage me when he said he forgot the way. blardy!
so we said, nope, more like i said, i suggested that the best way to this problem is! THAT I DRIVE! settles everything, no?
tsk tsk tsk. guys and their ego.
imagine me fetching him, and our housemates, who happened to be his batchmates.
ahahhaahhaha
though this has never happened, but would, soon! HA!HA!
i have to be an idiot and point where to turn sometimes, just in case if he decided to conveniently forget (how do i know when he would miss a turning?), and he would go 'i know i know' and i would just ignore him when im in the mood and continue pointing.
obviously, dont get me wrong.
when im angry, i would get over it quickly after spilling them.
how could I get angry with such a man when he comes up with such video? i print-screen this photo from the video. made me go 'awwwww' when i see the 2009-forever. how attentive of him to put "- forever"! ahhaahhaha im a psycho i know, but truthfully, the first thing that entered my mind when i saw that word was WOW, how thoughtful of him!
:)
well, this is not all about my new life.
about marriage
we'll do it bit by bit ok? lols!
woh-k!
time for me to go get my case notes done!
sigh
dont know lots of things.
FRP: million?
me: yes? *jovially*
FRP: how come u everything also dont know wan?
me: ha? i also dont know why i dont know.
PA: aiyah, slowly la, shez learning ma.
me: yealoh yealoh, give me some time. i am learning now.
how embarrassing.
nope, im not actually that embarrassed. i felt stupid BUT YET i want someone to teach me! as in, i already know i lack of knowledge, but i need people to teach me!
what i do now in IPP is to screen the medications (they seemed to be normal to me :S cause i dont know what is wrong you see. i dont know what cant be given with what) im suppose to detect wrong dosage or wrong frequency or interactions, but i am oblivious to them all. ??? how do i know? i dont have time to go through all the drugs one by one!
so, the screening part is always fine to me :S
next would be filling and checking. if i do the filling, then someone else has to check. and vice versa.
mmm....this is really continuous education. i need to find ways to feed my brain.
i want to be like the FRPs, where they can intervene and argue with the doctors! ;)
ekekkekekeke
till then!
cheerio!
