Wednesday, 19 September 2018

19.9.18

KS asked cheerily: mummy, do you know what is mi feng?

M:yes I do... Oh no I don't . What is it kayshen?

KS: it's bee!!

M: oh I see..

The little cute mouth starts to quiver  " do you know or you do not know?" With hands on hips, staring at me.

M: *blank * (do I know or do I not know? Which will be the correct answer??)

KS: you do know right! Because you know Chinese

M: then why did you ask me if you know I know Chinese?

Zzzz

M: because sometimes you asked me to pretend that I don't know🤷

KS: but this is for real...

The show begins....crying and whatnot😅

Anyway this is a cute pic of him:)





Tuesday, 1 May 2018

Banana chocolate valrhona brownies





Cool I can blog using my new HUAWEI P20 Plus.

Made this today, on labour 'S day 2018

https://www.twopeasandtheirpod.com/chocolate-banana-bread/#comment-362212

Altered recipe :

1cup flour
50g Dutch processed cocoa powder
1tsp baking powder
Half tsp salt
3 big brown banana (1 and 1/2cup)
50g oil
50g melted butter
100g brown sugar
1 large egg
1tsp vanilla
Chocolate chips

Added walnuts on top before baking

150celcius
30mins


Sweetness is perfect
Keeper recipe hence I'm documenting here



Tuesday, 16 January 2018

15.01.2018

last night, we were running out of time, rushing to bed -_-'''' what a rat race.

at 8pm we quickly jump onto bed and KS was the first to be read. he gave me The Good Dinosaur disney book and whilst i was reading, he was holding another book beside me, flipping through that book . ??? WHAT IS THIS???
since he wasnt paying attention to me, and i didnt want to cause any uproar (coming from him) so i quickly read 1-2 sentences and flipped through the book quickly. i need to finish this book in order to read to KJ the gangsta granny.

while waiting for his turn (KJ), he was at the far end of the bed, reading another book.

as i race through KS's book, i thought no one was paying attention. out of nowhere KJ questioned " mummy, why are u reading so fast?"
opss! i turned at him and wink wink, hoping he could catch me.
he smirked.
phew!
i was avoiding a tantrum from KS. seriously.

so when i was done with the dinosaur book, kj came to me and we read a few chapters beside the father came in and switched off the lights.

all of us knocked off at 8.30pm. :)



our current read: Gangsta granny

Sunday, 7 January 2018

7.1.2018

Sunday 7jan2018

Early morning, ks went into the toilet to poo and when he was done, he shouted mummy!! Im done!

I was still feeling groggy so i asked the brother to help out. He was halfway to the toilet and ks said No! I dotn want ge ge

The brother threw his hands up and walked back to his book.

The father pulled himself from bed and offered, kayshen what about daddy?
No i want mummy. You tomorrow.

Why do u want mummy?

Because she is comfortable

All of us raised our eyebrows




Tuesday, 27 June 2017

toddler skin to skin contact

"Did u drink my milk? " I felt someone drinking.....

He kept quiet, thinking for a many seconds... before he answered, "me"

Just a little bit!

Why just a little bit?

Im afraid u will scold me

Why? U like to drink my milk?

Yes

U want to drink a lot?

Yes.


on another occaion:


When i was still sleeping he tries to roll up my shirt from my back
He had difficulty then he decided he has to also roll up from the front

When he was doing it from the front, suddenly he saw my nipple and decided to give it a suck

When i woke up he got startled

Oh, he explained "i thought you are sleeping"







yes, and he decided to stack books on my back
??


this guy make me feel that if he can crawl under my skin, he would!
he loves to rub his face all over me...and sometimes it hurts.
he gets heavier now (as compared to last time because he is very tiny for someone his age) and whenever he sleeps on me, even if it is only his head nested on my chest (between shoulder and neck), i would felt out of breath!
what should i do!

son, that does not mean i love u any lesser.
but really, it suffocates me and hurts my collarbone. eekk

-xoxo-

-march 2017-

Friday, 16 June 2017

16-6-17

Today after school i picked ks home

He overheard his dad telling me that he (dad) wanted apples and oranges

Ks exclaimed that he wanted apple too

Then he began asking:

Him: isna talk english?

Me: no. She speaks in bahasa

Him: what is skin?

Me: kulit

Him: tidak mau kulit. What is meat?

Me: isi. Meat is i-si

Him: isi. What is skin again?

Me: kulit

👍

Then i recalled back in ah ma's house last week, ks yelped to his grandma, "ahma Ni suap wo!" .....no one responded
Ahma! Ni suap wo!

Only kj can understood 😂

Kind hearted kj " ahma, kayshen yau ni feed ta"  (grandma, kayshen wants u to feed him)

Ohhhh...😄

16-6-2017



Sunday, 30 April 2017

30-4-2017

During dinner today, out of the blue kj turned to me and asked "hey mummy are u wearing your bra?"
Yes of course i am
Oh where? I thought you are not
Here!
And he lightly press my shirt down and see the "hill" not mountain
Hahaa
Ohhh he uttered.

His dad caught us in our conversation, this is one topic which bothers him more than it bothers me
So he quickly explain to kj that this are private parts .he cannot do that etc etc
I quickly add on that he can do so to me but not to others..only to me
I think somehow i do not want to part with him as in i do not want him to think that he cannot do such things to me and we wont be as close as before -______-'''
Sobs
Heck he used to drink my milk! Haha



30-4-2017

Friday, 10 February 2017

stop bathing with kids

I spoke to kj today

Of late, when we were watching tv togeher, it is usually me+hubs watching our dramas and he joined in

Whenever he sees woman with bra and panty he will go ueeeee

So today i had the opportunity to speak to him about it

Beginning this year, hubs reminded me to stop bathing together with kj.
i challenged him why
Hubs confided that kj is growing up now and he is aware of such issues. 
I have been bathing with him since day1 of his life till now.
alright, i am more conscious now and i only strip my clothes off, leaving my undergarments and bathed the boys.

Back to the conversation with kj.
Kj, why did u uekk when you see girls with bra and panty in the tv?
I feel shy
So next time i wont bathe with u anymore ok? Because i respect you, and if u dont like it i will not do it.
No its fine. U can bathe with me
U think its ueky right? So i will not do it, i dont want u to feel uncomfortable
 It is not uncomfortable. Just a lil bit shy
Maybe skip one day?
*i understand he means every other day
Okay we can do that. And i will put on my bra and panty ok?
Ok (all the time trying to look at his story book)

There is many school of thoughts for this.

To let your children see naked body and they wont feel gross when they see naked bodies outside the house?

Really there are many controversial stories out there


This is not a post for discussion
This is to remind me of tonight's conversation:)

10-2-2017

Thursday, 5 January 2017

how to cook canned sardine


sardine recipe


hubs came home late and when he was eating, i sat on the dining table too.

"come, eat this" i encouraged.
i know he doesnt fancy sardine, but anyway....

Me: come...eat it...
Him: no thank you
Me: come..eat it...
(i was persistent..heh)
Him: no, i dont eat sardine
(duh like i dont know!)
Me: i know, just try it!

reluctantly dip into the gravy and put into his mouth
*****sparkles*****
Him: mmmm! yum! hurry tell me...what did u put?
i gave him a smug look...
Him: hurry...tell me...what did u put?
Me: .........
suspense......

Him: "mmmm! that is why i love indian food!
indian food is amazing yada yada..."

here goes the recipe before i forgot and fail to replicate in future :)

1 can of sardine
1 fresh tomato
garlic, 2 slices of ginger
1 onion
2 sprig curry leaves
1/4tsp fennel seed
1/4 tsp cumin seed
1/4 tsp coriander seed
salt
sugar
curry powder
turmeric powder


1. heat oil in skillet
2.sweat onion, garlic, ginger in the skillet until brown
3. add in the spices and continue to fry till fragrant
4. add in curry leaves and tomato
5. pour in can of sardine
6. add curry powder and turmeric powder and some water and simmer. add salt and sugar to taste

the way i cook is that i dont measure, unless im baking.
so i threw everything into the skillet without measuring hence im lucky this dish comes out delicious! ;)

thanks to my colleague (a guy!) for cooking this and bringing it to work.
it got me started googling for sardine recipe! *thumbs up*


sweet and sour pork recipe

it was raining so i came home from work and decided to cook something different!


sweet and sour pork!


recipe before i forget:

pork slices
1 tbs corn flour
1tbs rice flour
2 tbs plain flour
2 tbs plum sauce
1 tbs lea and perrins
1 tbs tomato sauce (ketchup)
1tbs soy sauce
2 tsp? sugar
2tbs water

1. coat meat with 3 types of flour
2. deep fry
3. discard cooking oil.
4. mix all the sauces and pour into skillet
5. throw in the fried meat and coat them with sauces
dish out
garnish!