not healthy

this is a dilemma.

wives are suppose to do the domestic chores, as they are known to be the domestic wives!

but what happens if both the husband and wife work in the same profession?

after work, the wife has to come home and continue slaving to serve the LIFE partner?

i know, there are wives outside who still have to work and bring money home and yet has to come home and do all the chores.

those people really deserve to be respected.

i cant cope. no matter how embarrassing this is, i still have to admit cause this is the reality.

i wont pretend to be a superwife and supermom when i am not one.

sad right?

i really do love serving him but despite all these while, it just dawned upon me that i just cant do it! :(

life becomes bitter when it reaches this stage.

this is not a healthy start to a new family, especially.

something has to be done.

oh, by the way, ive got a maid :) but she only comes once a week. not helping much when u have a husband who has a full time maid at home, not forgetting a very lenient mom.

it pisses me off when i need to do charity everyday as well. it is unwilling type of charity.

whyyy??? u need to be willing and happy when u want to do charity right?

grhh