Thursday, 12 September 2013

mid autumn 2012


 chinese calligraphy on kong ming tern (lantern).
 Chap Goh Meh this year we were invited to dr.chiam's house.

 i like this hairstyle.

 im gonna miss this neighbourhood



 singing

that is his interest -_____-
that was what i wrote in the Getting to know him Questionnaire for his teacher.



 this is good for bigger kids to learn science.
u need to light the candle and wait for the gas to fill up the balloon before it can be lifted.

 the uncle with the many lanterns in his house (left house) sponsored all these lanterns.


beautiful arent they


celebrate Mid Autumn this year with your family and friends on 19th September 2013!


im so sorry. these photos were taken during Chap Goh Meh 2013, Feb 24th, 

Tuesday, 10 September 2013

my baby grows too fast!

90 days old

he is beginning to respond to us and smiles :)

his neck is getting stronger as well.
both his arms can hold up his head.
good job kiddo!

down with flu. more phlegm than flu.
got it from his big bro.
hence he wants to be nursed all the time, starting yesterday.

get well soon darling!

oh which means i should be back at work today.

90 days of maternity.
uh.
i applied for another 2 weeks of hols.
i cant bear losing sight of this cutie pie :(

Advantage of Extra virgin coconut oil (vco)?




 Mildura Organic
Extra virgin coconut oil
commonly known as VCO

i bought this in Ipoh, in Country Farm Organic shop.

i tried to rub some oil on kj's eczema skin but they kinda worsen.
no idea what happened since vco claimed to be healing and there is a long list of benefits to it.

To summarize, here is some of what coconut oil may do for you:
  • Improve your energy
  • Reduce your risk of heart disease
  • Reduce your risk of cancer
  • Improve your digestion and ability to absorb nutrients
  • Promote weight loss and maintenance of your ideal weight
  • Help prevent bacterial, yeast, fungal, and viral infections
  • Support and enhance your immune system
  • Help regulate your blood sugar and prevent or control diabetes
  • Help prevent osteoporosis
  • Help prevent premature aging and wrinkling of the skin
  • Help keep your skin smooth and soft
  • Help protect against skin cancer and blemishes


 bought this 2 weeks ago,
kj loves it more than the mildura.

Newlife Extra virgin coconut oil
first cold pressed
RM 58 / bottle per 500ml
i used someone else's membership.
in their website it says RM 72.50.

indeed, the oil is thinner and more fragrant.

Mildura was thick hence making it more like swallowing oil.

i've used the mildura vco to gargle my mouth - oil pulling.
yucks. i should try this newlife brand now.
i could only gargle for a good 10 mins, perhaps now i can last longer?
suggested time for oil pulling is 20 minutes.


Oil Pulling for a Brighter Smile and Better Health

Oil Pulling ("OP") is reported to cure: Mouth &, Gum Disease, Stiff Joints, Allergies, Asthma, High Blood Sugar, Constipation, Migraines, Bronchitis, Eczema, Heart, Kidney, Lung Diseases, Leukemia, Arthritis, Meningitis, Insomnia, Menopause (hormonal issues), Cancer, AIDS, Chronic Infections, Varicose Veins, High Blood Pressure, Diabetes, Polio, and Cracked Heels. And that's just to start! Earthclinic home remedies



kj cant get enough of this.

nevertheless, initially it might give laxative effect to the children.
i think kj has it.

i give vco to him and also myself especially when we are under the weather.

im not ill at the moment but matty is.

refer here for dosage. this site also shares the 80 uses of coconut oil.

There seems to be a lot of differing information about how much coconut oil you should take. I have found the following:
- You can do as little is one teaspoon internally (especially if you are also rubbing it into your skin since it is highly absorbed into your blood stream when you rub it into your skin)
- Many believe you should take 3 tablespoons internally if you are taking Virgin coconut oil for a particular problem (don't fret, you can mix coconut oil into all sorts of things rather than just take it straight) -- this amount is comparable to the quantity of medium chain fatty acids in human breast milk - OR you can look at the following chart below for yourdaily dose of coconut oil


Note: Since Virgin coconut oil enhances the digestive system, it is advised that taking and using coconut oil is done gradually to give the system time to adjust.  Ingesting big amounts of coconut oil immediately may cause diarrhea, so small amounts at a time will do until you are ready for a regular dosage. From Meritvco

coconut oil has lauric acid.
human milk is also a rich source of lauric acid.


Learn About the Many Benefits of Lauric Acid in Coconut Oil in Natural News.
coconut uses infographic
Learn how the coconut tree provides all-around benefits -- from its husks and roots to coconut oil -- through our infographic "Plant of Life: An Infographic on Various Coconut Uses."


Coconut oil reverse dementia



by the way ladies, u can also add vco into your smoothies! ;)

or use it for cooking. or for Oil Cleansing.

Sunday Morning

 the boys

 funky sausage dog
he's the star of attraction.
his owner parades him around town

if you want to watch a glimpse of him,
wait for him in Gaya Street on every sunday morning.

hubs went to Lido market to help me to collect beef bones, the dog was there.
hubs then came home and picked us up to gaya street, eh? we saw him there as well.
-________-'''

so yeah, he does his rounds in Lido Market too.

 2.5 months old.
we bring him everywhere.
that is the perk of living on our own :p


the weather was not forgiving.
it was scorching hot! 
poor baby

this is Angel Pack LX ssc. our first baby wearing gear, bought back in apr 2010.
RM 503.50 (include usd34 shipping)
u can get it cheaper now.



 1st sept


 he coos and gurgles


his double chin!


5th sept

matty's face

 this was taken in june/july 2013.

means about 1-2 months old.

still skinny.


 aug 3rd.
haha, plumped up!

 aug 3rd, still in Ipoh.
doing our last circuit. -_____-
before coming back here, reuniting as a family.


 aug 6th

haha.
the cutie pie vomited and the mummy can still pause and snap before cleaning up. hihihi


hohoho!
look at the mess!!!!



Monday, 9 September 2013

waldorf : kampung boy

6 Aug 2013
 watching my dad bathing the pigeons.

he learned the word "pet"
his pet is Hero, my family's black Rottweiler.
my dad's pet is pigeon. -_____-
i hate the birds.

 the orchard.
my dad, very very old school and conventional.
he loves orchards.
this is his new orchard.

 buah longkong.
no idea what is it called in english.

i was in my confinement so i was confined at home and the little boy enjoys going to the orchard,without me.
hence i have no idea what he does.

now that we are back in KK, he saw a brownish round shell on the floor and he muttered longkong.
he picked up words really fast now.
i was impressed he can remember that fruit. hehe

 picking rambutans.
he wants a RED one.

 pulling the rambutan.

years ago, i remembered he was afraid of touching the rambutan.
maybe he did not like the hairy feel.

 organic durian

 played on the swing

 the father practices surfing.

 fresh water from the mountain.
believe me, it was refreshing and tasty!

 dad went to shoot petai.
organic petai.

these days everyone talks about organic this, organic that.

 whilst we enjoy, where does the little one go?
there were too many mosquitoes waiting to feast on fresh blood, so matty hid here.

 isnt this mosquito net funny?
imagine lifting up the net and u can feast on the dish!
haha!

barely 2 months old, we bring him everywhere.
including the orchard in the kampung.
is he lucky or unlucky?
luckily no insect bites!

 the cheeky boy loves the chicken!
i hope he did not torture them!

 see? he picked up the chicken!
*gasp*
even i dare not touch them!
haha
lousy squeamish mama

 a real silly boy
what's in his hand can u guess?
a small chick!

 chill baby chill...
dont get over-excited!

he tried to kiss the chick
-__________-
i think he did kiss?
oh no!
and he asked me to take a photo of him kissing.
i was antsy so i got a little clumsy.
i want to quickly snap and get it done with so that he would release the fragile chick.

at night for dinner,
we had musang king, from Bentong.
this box costs over 200 ringgit.

some people said there are fake musang king.
one of the many ways to identify is that musang king has wrinkled skin.

2 months after confinement, i dare not went overboard.
just a few seeds to seal the craving.

some said durians can be eaten during confinement because it is heaty.
some said angin.

i dont know.
:S

i waited till after confinement.


check my title. 
i mentioned waldorf.
what is waldorf?
it is a type of childhood education.
just like montessori, which everyone has heard of.

waldorf has to malaysia and hence people are becoming more aware of.

it originates from Germany.


While getting the links, i found some info which is in line with my parenting philosophy but ive greatly LOST the battle! :(

A cornerstone in Steiner’s educational theorems was the fact that children go through three stages in their lives. First, from age 0-7, the spirit inhabiting the body of the child is still getting used to its surroundings. This explains many standards in the Waldorf curriculum such as the standard of teaching the alphabet at age 7 or 8. During the second stage, from ages 7-14, the child is said to be driven by imagination and fantasy, and during the third stage, starting at age 14, the astral body is said to be driven into the physical body, creating the onset of puberty. - See more at: http://earthschooling.info/thebearthinstitute/?p=1872#sthash.OOu1uAq6.dpuf

Modern researchers, however, have just recently made this connection when they recently announced, “Watching Television may Quicken the Onset of Puberty” (Dr. Laura Markham, 2006). In her article, based on 35 different research studies she states that this connection has a lot to do with the hormone melatonin. Melatonin is a hormone produced by the pineal gland in the brain, which plays a key role in regulating the body’s internal clock. Light emitted by television screens suppresses melatonin levels in the blood, which disrupts sleep patterns of children and teens as well as the age at which they enter puberty. It is also interesting to note that the problems of early-onset puberty have baffled researchers since 1950. This was the same date in which televisions became widely owned in the United States.
This is not the main reason given when Waldorf Schools state on their websites that children should not watch television. When I reviewed 40 Waldorf school websites I found that 36 of them stated their main reason for discouraging television was that it hinders the imagination in the child.
- See more at: http://earthschooling.info/thebearthinstitute/?p=1872#sthash.OOu1uAq6.dpuf



Sunday, 8 September 2013

My children on car seat



high back booster.
CS906F. Goodbaby brand.
bought during a members day sale. RM 160. best deal we think.

what is a booster seat?
why did i buy a booster seat?

Keep children in booster seats until they pass the "5 Step Test" (usually around 10-12 years old and close to 5 feet tall) in every vehicle in which the child rides. If the child meets the 5 Step Test in one vehicle, but not another, the child will need a booster for every vehicle in which the 5 Step Test is not met. 

The 5 Step Test

If you answer "No" to any of these questions, your child must be in a booster seat: 
1. Does the child sit all the way back against the auto seat? 
2. Do the child's knees bend comfortably at the edge of the auto seat? 
3. Is the lap belt touching the top of the thighs, not the tummy? 
4. Is the shoulder belt centered on the shoulder and chest? 
5. Can the child stay seated like this for the whole trip?
BELT-POSITIONING BOOSTERS CAN NOT be used with only a lap belt! 
(See your car dealer for a lap/shoulder belt retrofit.)

taken from car-seat.org



aldo car seat. RM 299

guys, u can buy this aldo for less than RM299 in the west.

everything is over-priced here. sobs

so this aldo seat is passed down to the little brother while the big bro gets a brand new blue booster.
thats the perk of being the eldest. everything new. heh.



this orange Aprica, is the most expensive car seat that we owned.

it is so huge and bulky that we keep it in the west.
we usually need to travel 400 - 500km on average each trip home.

yikes! the baby sleeps on makeshift bed.

i have no idea what I'm gonna do.

well, trust me.
safety aside, a child can sit and sleep comfortably in a carseat THAN our car's original seat.

we are a family who loves to travel and being located in East malaysia,
we go on road trips, despite having a baby or a toddler.

whether or not they buckle up, is not my main concern.
sorry, because I'm merely lazy having to scutter over to his side to buckle and unbuckle. 
KK is so small i find it silly trying to buckle and unbuckle every 10 mins.

but as long as they stick their butt on their designated seat, I'm fine.


why is my child always sick?

in the airport

the dad decided that he has to wear mask each time he flies

 hello kitty mask bought in daiso.
a packet of 2. means RM2.50 each.
oh dear! pricey

 yes, everyone is amused that he wants to even put on the mask

yeh, he put it on for 30mins, till we got up to the plane.
we had to coax him from time to time.
besides, the father himself also wears a mask.
leading by example?
uh, the father also always gets the bugs on plane.
-_________-
so we're killing 2 birds with a stone
;)

 after flying frequently for 3 years,
we came to realize that each time he flies, he'll be the victim to illness.

prior to that, i have always thought that he is a healthy and strong kid.
hardly ever falls sick.

except when we travel, he'll catch the flu and cough bugs inside the plane. darn.

also, his hygiene is awful.

constrained in the cabin,
his hand touches everywhere followed by scratching and wiping his face and whatnot.

nevertheless, we only treat the symptoms usually.

he rarely falls ill and becomes inactive.
he is usually ill and very active.
whenever a kid is active, they are fine.
remember to only treat symptomatically.


read this article.
parents, relax.

children are prone to illness when they begin school.
however, my child builds his immunity even before he attends school.

so parent, do relax.

he was never on antibiotic till today.
just once, we were not sure if it was bacterial, we gave him syrup amoxicillin for 2 dose and we stopped.
most of the time they were due to viral infection.

dont ask me how to diagnose.
even a doctor cannot be 100% sure.

but yeah, generally, antibiotic doesnt help viral infection.
and most of his illnesses were due to damn viruses.

now that he has started school,
there will be other bouts of flu.

im rolling up my sleeve.....


Feb 2013