抑或，我們本來就應該習慣失望？
小孩子是不會失望的，他們只有快樂和不快樂。
失望，是屬於成年人的。
歡迎來到成年人的世界！從今以後，快樂和不快樂都不再那麼純粹和簡單了
就連所有微小的失望，也變得複雜。
失望當然是不快樂的，卻也不至於傷心。
有一種失望，沒有眼淚，只像一聲低沈的嘆息，像一份淡淡的哀愁，甚至還能夠帶著苦澀的微笑。
譬如說，他答應了你的事沒有做，他在你想見他的時候沒有來見你，
他在你需要安慰的時候沒有張開雙臂給你一個溫暖的懷抱，他做不到你想他做的事，他又對你撒謊了。
如此種種，也不是頭一次了，但你還是會失望。
然而，你再也不會像頭一次那樣掉眼淚，再也不會當他的面說出來，只會埋藏在心底最深處，跟自己說：
「唔，他就是這樣的啊。」
要有多少次滿含熱淚的失望，才能夠修煉得到心中苦澀，微笑依然的失望？
是不是有一種失望，是愛情附帶的條件？
是不是愈是愛一個人，也愈容易對他苛求，對他失望？
那麼，錯的並不是他。
是有一種失望，像無故失眠的長夜。你一個人望著寂靜的晚空，回想著你愛過和愛過你的每一個人，
有些愛已經忘了，有些愛忘不了。但是，只要愛著一個人，也就永遠會有失望的時刻。
banana?
cant read mandarin?
so u dont understand?
u suck!
:P
cause i can understand! :P
nyaiahhahahahahaha
all thanks to who?
here's the translation! ;)
In our lifetime, how many times must us be disappointed for us to be numb to the disappointment?
Or, we are intuitively used to disappointment?
Kids will not be disappointed, to them there's only happy and unhappy.
Disappointment, is a feeling that belongs only to the adults
Welcome to the adult world! Happy and unhappy will never be so simple and easy anymore, even the smallest disappointment may be a complicated emotion.
Of course you won't be happy when you are disappointed but it might not be to the degree of sadness.
There's a kind of disappointment, it comes without tear, like a soft sigh, a faint blueness, it could even bring you a bitter grinning. (MAN THIS LINE IS KILLING ME! IT'S FREAKING HARD TO TRANSLATE!!)
For example, he din't do something he promised, or he din't show up on time when you miss him so much, he din't extend his arms to you and give you a warm hug when you needed someone to comfort you, he couldn't do what you want him to do, or he lie to you again.
And the list goes on, it wouldn't be the first time, but of course you'll still be upset.
You'll not shed your tears like the first time it happen, or voice up and argue, you'll just let it sit deep at the bottom of your heart, you'll say to yourself:"Ah it's just him."
How many times must we cry our heart out, to make ourselves so numb we could smile bearing a broken heart?
Does disappointment comes in a package with love?
Does the more we love someone make us more and more demanding on him, and be disappointed when he fails to live up to expectations?
If this is the case, the fault is not on him.
There's a kind of disappointment, like having an insomia without a cause. You'll stare at the lonely sky, reminiscing those you loved and those who loved you.
Some which the love has been long forgotten, some which you can never forget. However, as long as you love someone, you'll always be bound by disappointment.
babe it's harder than I think! My god!
enjoy reading la :)
Or, we are intuitively used to disappointment?
Kids will not be disappointed, to them there's only happy and unhappy.
Disappointment, is a feeling that belongs only to the adults
Welcome to the adult world! Happy and unhappy will never be so simple and easy anymore, even the smallest disappointment may be a complicated emotion.
Of course you won't be happy when you are disappointed but it might not be to the degree of sadness.
There's a kind of disappointment, it comes without tear, like a soft sigh, a faint blueness, it could even bring you a bitter grinning. (MAN THIS LINE IS KILLING ME! IT'S FREAKING HARD TO TRANSLATE!!)
For example, he din't do something he promised, or he din't show up on time when you miss him so much, he din't extend his arms to you and give you a warm hug when you needed someone to comfort you, he couldn't do what you want him to do, or he lie to you again.
And the list goes on, it wouldn't be the first time, but of course you'll still be upset.
You'll not shed your tears like the first time it happen, or voice up and argue, you'll just let it sit deep at the bottom of your heart, you'll say to yourself:"Ah it's just him."
How many times must we cry our heart out, to make ourselves so numb we could smile bearing a broken heart?
Does disappointment comes in a package with love?
Does the more we love someone make us more and more demanding on him, and be disappointed when he fails to live up to expectations?
If this is the case, the fault is not on him.
There's a kind of disappointment, like having an insomia without a cause. You'll stare at the lonely sky, reminiscing those you loved and those who loved you.
Some which the love has been long forgotten, some which you can never forget. However, as long as you love someone, you'll always be bound by disappointment.
babe it's harder than I think! My god!
enjoy reading la :)
3 comments:
HuH!! Solute to the translator!!!!
banana somemore dare to say ppl banana :P next time all msg i oso send u in chinese baru tau!!! hahaha
anon,
me too...:))
kx,
wana kena ah?
:p
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